THE CONFLICT CLARITY CLASS

Understand the conflict. Shift the pattern. Rebuild peace.

A short, impactful class that helps you uncover what’s really driving the arguments in your marriage—and gives you the tools to start changing the pattern, even if your spouse isn’t ready yet.

If you’re tired of walking on eggshells, afraid to bring up how you feel because it always turns into a fight—or you shut down instead—this class is for you. You want to fix things, but nothing you try seems to work. This is your first step toward understanding what’s happening underneath the surface—and how to respond with more calm, clarity, and compassion.

You’re not “bad at marriage.”

You’re not

“bad at marriage.”

You’re just stuck in a cycle you haven’t been shown how to break—yet.

When every conversation feels like it’s one wrong word away from turning into a fight (or silence), it’s easy to start thinking:

“Maybe we’re just not meant to work.”

“Why does this always happen when I try to talk?”

“I love him/her, but I don’t even know how to connect anymore.”

What no one teaches you—especially in our communities—is that these patterns aren’t random.

They’re predictable, explainable, and most importantly… changeable.

This isn’t about who’s “too emotional” or “too avoidant.” It’s about how your nervous system and emotional history are wired to protect you—and what happens when that wiring gets activated in marriage.

And once you understand that?

Everything changes.

You didn’t get married expecting it to feel like this.

You thought you'd grow together, build something beautiful together. And in many ways, you have.

But behind closed doors, it’s a different story:

Every conversation feels like a landmine—you either hold back to avoid another argument, or try to speak up and get met with defensiveness or silence.
You feel like you're the only one trying to fix it—and you’re exhausted from carrying that weight.

The same fights keep happening, and even when they don’t… the tension still lives between you.

You’re trying so hard to be calm, patient, understanding—but nothing you do seems to make it better.

And the worst part? You can’t quite explain what’s going wrong. You just know it feels… heavy. Lonely. Hopeless.

You're not crazy for feeling this way. And you’re not alone.

You're just missing the piece no one teaches us:

Understanding what’s actually going on underneath the conflict—so you can change the way you show up inside it.

Here’s what no one told you:

When conflict keeps repeating in your marriage, it’s not because you’re broken—or because your partner is.

It’s because you’re caught in a pattern that was shaped long before this relationship even began.

This class helps you uncover those hidden emotional “scripts” that drive the way you show up in conflict.

Because when you’re triggered, your nervous system is doing everything it can to protect you.

➡ Sometimes that looks like shutting down.

➡ Sometimes it looks like chasing the conversation.

➡ Sometimes it’s silence, anger, panic, or trying to fix everything just to keep the peace.

➡ Sometimes that looks like shutting down.

➡ Sometimes it looks like chasing the conversation.

➡ Sometimes it’s silence, anger, panic, or trying to fix everything just to keep the peace.

Whatever your version is—you’ll learn to see it clearly, understand where it comes from, and shift how you respond.

Not through shame. Not through blaming your spouse.

But through grounded self-awareness, emotional clarity, and compassionate tools that actually work.

You'll walk away with more than just insight—you’ll walk away with language, practices, and grounding du’as and reflections that help you respond differently the next time conflict shows up.

Introducing:

The Conflict Clarity Class

Understand the conflict. Shift the pattern. Rebuild peace.

Understand the conflict.

Shift the pattern.

Rebuild peace.

This short, self-paced class is designed to help you uncover what’s really happening beneath the surface of your arguments—and give you tools to start shifting the pattern today.

No long commitment.

No overwhelm.

Just clarity, compassion, and practical steps that actually make a difference.

Here’s What You’ll Get Inside The Conflict Clarity Class

🎧 60-Minute Class:

No jargon. No fluff. Just a clear, easy-to-follow breakdown of the 4 attachment styles through everyday couple scenarios. You'll finally understand your own pattern (and possibly your spouse’s, too), why you react the way you do, and what's really going on beneath the surface.

All without shame or blame.

📝 “Which One Sounds Like You?”

Self-Discovery Worksheet

This is more than just a quiz, this is a guided tool to help you recognize your emotional patterns in conflict so you can shift from autopilot reactions to intentional,

calm responses.

💬 “Say This Instead” Script Sheet

Examples of how to express yourself clearly and lovingly—even when you’re triggered. These aren’t generic communication tips—they’re real phrases designed to help you feel seen, and actually get your message across.

🕊️ Grounding Du’as and Reflections

Reminders that you can turn to when emotions are high—so you can pause, reset, and return to compassion, even in the heat of the moment.

⭐️ YOU’LL ALSO GET THE ICING ON THE CAKE WITH THIS POWERFUL BONUS ⭐️

⭐️ YOU’LL ALSO GET THE ICING ON THE CAKE WITH THIS

POWERFUL BONUS ⭐️

From Conflict to Connection: Overcoming Destructive Communication Patterns

If you've ever found yourself thinking, “But I’m just trying to explain!” only to have your spouse shut down or react, this bonus is for you.

Inside this video training, you'll uncover:

The specific behaviors that silently sabotage your marriage, even when you don't think you're doing anything wrong

Why your attempts to “get through” or defend yourself might be creating emotional distance instead of change, and what to do instead

A research based perspective rooted in Islamic principles that guides you toward communication that heals rather than harms

By the end, you’ll have clear language, new awareness, and fresh alternatives to show up differently in conflict, with tools that actually work.

This bonus is included inside the Conflict Clarity Class portal and is available to every student who joins.

No deadline. No catches. Just extra clarity to accelerate your transformation.

**This solution doesn’t promise to fix your entire marriage overnight. But it does promise to change the way you see what’s been happening—and give you a better way to respond to it.**

If you’re ready to stop feeling stuck in the same arguments...

If you’re tired of walking on eggshells and wondering,

“Why does this keep happening?”

If you’re tired of walking on eggshells and wondering,

“Why does this keep happening?”

If you want to feel calmer, clearer, and more in control of how you show up in your marriage...

Your Next Step Starts Here

Grab The Conflict Clarity Class now for just $37

✨ Start learning at your own pace

✨ See your patterns more clearly

✨ Respond differently in your next conversation

You’ll walk away feeling calmer, clearer, and more capable—before the next argument even begins.

✨ Start learning at your own pace

✨ See your patterns more clearly

✨ Respond differently in your

next conversation

You’ll walk away feeling calmer, clearer, and more capable—before the next argument even begins.

"But Will This Really Work for Me?"

You might be wondering...

“I don’t think this will work for us. My spouse isn’t even interested in doing this kind of work.”

Here's the truth: **This class was made for you, not both of you.**

While it’s amazing when both spouses are on board, real change never requires waiting on someone else. Conflict shifts the moment one person learns how to stop repeating reactive patterns and starts showing up with clarity and confidence — and that person can be you.

“I don’t think this will work for us. My spouse isn’t even interested in doing this kind of work.”

Here's the truth: This class was made for you, not both of you.

While it’s amazing when both spouses are on board, real change never requires waiting on someone else. Conflict shifts the moment one person learns how to stop repeating reactive patterns and starts showing up with clarity and confidence — and that person can be you.

You'll learn how to:

Stop unintentionally fueling the fire

Break out of “explain, defend, react” cycles

Change how you approach conflict — which often invites different responses from your spouse, even without them consciously trying

**“But our conflict feels really specific to us. I’m not sure a class will be personal enough.”**

Totally fair. And you’re right — every marriage has its nuances.

But here’s what’s also true: beneath the surface, the patterns that drive destructive conflict are often universal.

That’s why this class isn’t about vague advice or generic tips. It’s a targeted training rooted in Islam, psychology, and real communication science — built to help you identify and break the actual behavior loops that keep conflict stuck.

It’s not therapy, and it’s not 1:1 coaching — but it is designed to be practical, precise, and personalized enough to apply to your real life the moment you press play.

**“But our conflict feels really specific to us. I’m not sure a class will be personal enough.”**

Totally fair. And you’re right — every marriage has its nuances.

But here’s what’s also true: beneath the surface, the patterns that drive destructive conflict are often universal.

That’s why this class isn’t about vague advice or generic tips. It’s a targeted training rooted in Islam, psychology, and real communication science — built to help you identify and break the actual behavior loops that keep conflict stuck.

It’s not therapy, and it’s not 1:1 coaching — but it is designed to be practical, precise, and personalized enough to apply to your real life the moment you press play.

MEET YOUR GUIDE

Assalamualaikum, I'm Menahal

I created The Conflict Clarity Class because I know what it’s like to feel invisible in your own marriage.

I know what it’s like to love someone deeply, but still feel like you’re stuck in the same painful loop—misunderstood, overwhelmed, and unsure how to fix what keeps breaking down.

But I also know what’s possible when you have the tools, the language, and the right support.

I’m a licensed therapist, trained in the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and trauma-informed healing. I’ve worked with hundreds of Muslim couples to help them move from disconnection to compassion, and from surviving to rebuilding real connection.

I also authored the Islamic Reference Guide for the Gottman Method and bring both my clinical training and my background in traditional Islamic studies into everything I teach.

This class is a blend of everything I wish couples had before they hit their breaking point—rooted in real psychology, aligned with Islamic values, and grounded in the belief that your marriage is worth understanding.

WHO THIS IS FOR

If you’re a Muslim, married — whether it’s been 2 years or 20 — and you’ve ever found

yourself saying:

If you’re a Muslim, married — whether it’s been 2 years or 20 — and you’ve ever found yourself saying:

“I feel so stuck.”

“I wish we would just stop fighting all the time.”

“I just want to be happy again — is that too much to ask?”

…then this class was made with you in mind.

This is for the person who wants to understand what’s really going on beneath the surface — through an Islamic lens — and is ready to shift the way they show up in conflict, even if their spouse isn’t “doing the work” too.

It’s for those who know something needs to change — but just haven’t known how to make that change without

it spiraling.

Important note: This is not for anyone in an abusive marriage. May Allah protect and guide you to the support you need and deserve.

TESTIMONIALS

MEET YOUR GUIDE

Assalamualaikum,

I'm Menahal

I created The Conflict Clarity Class because I know what it’s like to feel invisible in your own marriage.

I know what it’s like to love someone deeply, but still feel like you’re stuck in the same painful loop—misunderstood, overwhelmed, and unsure how to fix what keeps breaking down.

But I also know what’s possible when you have the tools, the language, and the right support.

I also authored the Islamic Reference Guide for the Gottman Method and bring both my clinical training and my background in traditional Islamic studies into everything I teach.

ONE LAST THING

BEFORE YOU GO

ONE LAST THING BEFORE YOU GO

If you've read this far, there's probably a part of you that knows— this isn't just "a rough patch."

It’s a pattern. One that’s been quietly draining the peace and closeness you used to feel.

But here’s the beautiful thing: Patterns can be understood.

And once they’re understood—they can be shifted.

You don’t have to wait for your spouse to change.

You don’t have to keep wondering if it’s just you.

And you don’t have to keep walking on eggshells to keep the peace.

You just need a better starting point.

And this is it.

The Conflict Clarity Class is your first step toward healing the way you connect—with more understanding, less fear, and a lot more hope. I can’t wait to see the ripple effect this creates in your life, your marriage, and your heart.

— Menahal